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Relaxing after a hard day's work by watching your favourite shows can be a great way to unwind, but for many people it's also a distraction from the stresses of daily life. Since streaming services have made available all episodes of a show at one time, watching back-to-back episodes of the same show has become quite popular. That being said, if you find yourself unable to control how much TV you watch, or are unable to stop, or if it starts affecting your daily tasks, relationships, sleep, or emotional state; then perhaps it is time to take a closer look at what you're doing.
Binge watching does not necessarily mean there is something wrong with your mind. It is the amount of time spent on an activity that leads to problems. This occurs when someone views too much TV to continue with normal activities during a short period of time, finds themselves unable to stop even though they want to, or experiences adverse effects from the viewing experience.
Understanding why someone watches so much TV will assist them in developing better viewing practices and regaining control of their lives.
Binge watching is essentially the act of consuming multiple episodes of a television series or internet program in rapid succession. Whether or not it is acceptable to view extended periods of television varies greatly depending upon individual circumstances. Generally speaking, there is nothing wrong with occasionally viewing television for an extended period. However, when someone consistently consumes large amounts of television and cannot stop as desired, that could indicate a serious problem.
Some viewers use viewing television as a means of escaping uncomfortable feelings associated with stress, isolation, boredom or other unpleasant emotions. Once this behaviour develops into a consistent method of managing these issues, it no longer serves as an entertaining hobby. Rather, it becomes a substitute for dealing with whatever issues caused the viewer to begin using TV as an escape mechanism.
There are many psychological and environmental factors that lead to an individual's excessive viewing. These include:
Emotional regulation: In an effort to manage their own levels of anxiety, sadness, frustration, or stress, people will frequently use television or online content. While there is a potential to temporarily find solace in such media, if using it as the sole method of managing difficult feelings prevents the individual from dealing with them directly, then there is no way for the individual to begin working toward resolving those feelings.
Instant gratification: Many of today's TV shows and movies contain engaging story lines. They often have suspenseful endings or cliff hangers. This makes viewers feel rewarded when they continue watching because they want to see what happens next. Additionally, streaming services promote continuous viewing by utilizing features like auto play (i.e., the ability to automatically start playing another episode) and providing users with access to entire seasons of programming at all times.
Boredom and loneliness: Without adequate socialization or stimulating activity, people may become bored and lonely. For example, if someone has spent hours alone without doing anything productive, they may choose to spend their time watching content to stimulate themself. It can provide them with a feeling of being around others even though they are alone.
Avoidance of responsibilities: If a person uses binge-watching as a means of avoiding academic pressures, job-related stress, social problems etc., they may be able to avoid those stresses for a short period of time. However, delaying those responsibilities for long periods of time will likely increase the amount of stress experienced in the future.
Prolonged binge-watching can negatively affect both one's psychological state and overall well-being.
Sleep disturbances: Binge-watching late at night can cause delayed bedtimes, decreased total sleep time, and disrupted daily routines. Decreased sleep quality can lead to increased irritation, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and poor emotional regulation.
Mood changes: Although binge-watching might lift your mood in the beginning, you may eventually experience feelings of guilt, frustration, or depressed mood due to having watched more than you had planned. Some people develop symptoms of anxiety or depression while experiencing binge-watching episodes (although this varies greatly among different individuals).
Decreased productivity: Binge-watching continuously can hinder your ability to complete work, study requirements, perform household chores, achieve your personal goals, etc. As the days go by and you fail to meet deadlines you will build up additional stress which could further fuel your need to escape via entertainment.
Social isolation: If you substitute your conversations, social interactions, hobbies, time with family, loved ones with hours, days, weeks of watching content, you may start losing touch with friends or family members. Gradually you may lose opportunities for socialization.
Decrease in participating in enjoyable activities: Excessive viewing can take away from the time you would otherwise engage in activities that help you feel accomplished or purposeful such as exercising, hobbies, creative outlets, etc.
Do you find yourself binge-watching frequently? Do you experience any of the following symptoms?
Are you consistently watching for extended periods of time, even though you've made a conscious decision to limit your viewing time?
Is your sleep schedule suffering as a result of binge-watching? Have you abandoned other personal and professional commitments in order to continue binge-watching?
Do you feel uneasy or irritable when you are unable to access new content (i.e. no internet, etc.)?
Are you using television or streaming services as a way to cope with stressful events, difficult feelings, or ongoing issues?
Despite knowing that binge-watching is negatively impacting your life, do you still choose to engage in it?
Have you reduced your social interactions, stopped participating in favorite activities, or lost interest in things you once found enjoyable?
If you're experiencing only one of these indicators on occasion it doesn't mean there's anything wrong. If you exhibit this behaviour on a regular basis, either alone or along with significant distress or impairment in functioning; consider seeking help.
Determine beforehand how many episodes you will allow yourself to watch before stopping. Use features like "no autoplay" and "reminders" to help prevent overwatch.
How often do you find yourself binge-watching because of boredom, loneliness, stress, being overwhelmed, or some combination of those? Identifying these behaviours can assist you in creating better alternatives.
Walking, practicing deep breathing, mindfulness, journaling, engaging in physical exercise, and talking to trusted friends and family members are all viable options for managing stress and emotions.
Create a consistent bedtime and refrain from letting new episodes cut short the amount of restful sleep you need each night. Additionally, try removing electronic devices from your bedroom environment.
Engage in your preferred hobbies, reconnect socially through shared experiences (exercise, meals), achieve your individual goals, and gradually begin implementing changes. Don’t make drastic changes all at once.
Ask yourself prior to initiating a new episode why you want to view it and what time frame exists within which you plan to complete said episode. After completing an episode, reflect upon how you’re feeling and if the experience was what you anticipated.
When you find yourself unable to stop watching tv shows; when binge-watching interferes with work, school, or social activities; when binge-watching creates significant distress for you; when you feel like you are unable to cut down on binge-watching even after trying to do so, then it is time to get some psychological help. A mental health professional can provide insight into what issues may have contributed to the development of this pattern. These issues could include feelings of loneliness, anxiety, difficulty in regulating emotions, feelings of sadness,stress.
A mental health professional can also provide the type of treatment like, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), needed to address these types of problems. This type of treatment helps people develop strategies for identifying their personal "triggers," modifying negative thought processes, improving coping mechanisms, and establishing a healthy routine.
Leisure and entertainment are both very important parts of relaxing, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying a television show. However, recognizing at what point a fun and enjoyable activity becomes an interference in one's daily functioning is crucial.
Individuals who understand their own personal "triggers" for excessive viewing; set limits on how long they will watch each day/week/month; and develop alternative ways of coping with stress, boredom, etc. Can develop a healthier relationship with their viewing habits. It is not about eliminating all enjoyment from viewing. Rather, it is about creating a viewing experience that allows for choice versus controlling all aspects of daily living.